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What Scripture says about
same-sex relationships & fornication
(with notes from some popular Study Bibles)
 

Genesis 19:1-11
        The two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them and bowed himself with his face to the earth 2 and said, “My lords, please turn aside to your servant’s house and spend the night and wash your feet. Then you may rise up early and go on your way.” They said, “No; we will spend the night in the town square.” 3 But he pressed them strongly; so they turned aside to him and entered his house. And he made them a feast and baked unleavened bread, and they ate.
        4 But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house. 5 And they called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, that we may know them.” 6 Lot went out to the men at the entrance, shut the door after him, 7 and said, “I beg you, my brothers, do not act so wickedly. 8 Behold, I have two daughters who have not known any man. Let me bring them out to you, and do to them as you please. Only do nothing to these men, for they have come under the shelter of my roof.” 9 But they said, “Stand back!” And they said, “This fellow came to sojourn, and he has become the judge! Now we will deal worse with you than with them.” Then they pressed hard against the man Lot, and drew near to break the door down. 10 But the men reached out their hands and brought Lot into the house with them and shut the door. 11 And they struck with blindness the men who were at the entrance of the house, both small and great, so that they wore themselves out groping for the door.


Genesis 19:5
        They shouted to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so we can have sex with them!” (NET)

        Genesis 19:5 have sex with them. Homosexual practice was open and common among the men of Sodom (see Jude 1:7). The English word "sodomy" alludes to the perversions of the ancient city. (NIV Study Bible)

        "In light of the passage, the most common response to the question "What was the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah?" is that it was homosexuality. That is how the term "sodomy" came to be used to refer to anal sex between two men, whether consensual or forced. Clearly, homosexuality was part of why God destroyed the two cities. The men of Sodom and Gomorrah wanted to perform homosexual gang rape on the two angels (who were disguised as men). At the same time, it is not biblical to say that homosexuality was the exclusive reason why God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah. The cities of Sodom and Gomorrah were definitely not exclusive in terms of the sins in which they indulged.

        Ezekiel 16:49-50 declares, "Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty and did detestable things before me..." The Hebrew word translated "detestable" refers to something that is morally disgusting and is the exact same word used in Leviticus 18:22 that refers to homosexuality as an "abomination." Similarly, Jude 1:7 declares, "...Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion." So, again, while homosexuality was not the only sin in which the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah indulged, it does appear to be the primary reason for the destruction of the cities.

        Those who attempt to explain away the biblical condemnations of homosexuality claim that the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah was inhospitality. The men of Sodom and Gomorrah were certainly being inhospitable. There is probably nothing more inhospitable than homosexual gang rape. But to say God completely destroyed two cities and all their inhabitants for being inhospitable clearly misses the point. While Sodom and Gomorrah were guilty of many other horrendous sins, homosexuality was the principle reason God poured fiery sulfur on the cities, completely destroying them and all of their inhabitants. To this day, the area where Sodom and Gomorrah were located remains a desolate wasteland. Sodom and Gomorrah serve as a powerful example of how God feels about sin in general, and homosexuality specifically." (From: https://www.gotquestions.org/Sodom-and-Gomorrah.html)

Genesis 19:23-26
        The sun had risen on the earth when Lot came to Zoar. 24 Then the LORD rained on Sodom and Gomorrah sulfur and fire from the LORD out of heaven. 25 And he overthrew those cities, and all the valley, and all the inhabitants of the cities, and what grew on the ground. 26 But Lot’s wife, behind him, looked back, and she became a pillar of salt.

        Genesis 19:24-25 the Lord rained on Sodom and Gomorrah sulfur and fire from the Lord out of heaven (v. 24). These words emphasize the divine nature of the punishment, the consequence of which is the total destruction of all the inhabitants of Sodom and Gomorrah and all the vegetation (v. 25). The theme of universal destruction echoes the flood story. This judgment on Sodom and Gomorrah, the flood of Genesis 6-9, and the later destruction of the Canaanites when the people of Israel entered the Promised Land (Deut. 20:16-18) all vividly demonstrate God’s righteous wrath against sin, his mercy in rescuing the godly from destruction, and the certainty of the final judgment to come (cf. 2 Pet. 2:4-10). (ESV Study Bible)

        Genesis 19:23-26 The rain of brimstone and fire may be explained in a couple of ways. It is possible that God used a volcanic eruption or some similar kind of natural disaster. Then, the miracle would be in the Lord's timing and in the narrow escape of Lot and his family. See Exod. 14 for a similar possibility. It is also possible that the destruction of these cities was an act of judgment outside the normal range of natural occurrences. (Nelson's NKJV Study Bible)

"With burning sulfur the Lord overthrew the wicked cities and the entire plain in a great destruction (Gen. 19:24-25). Some have suggested that deposits of sulfur erupted from the earth (cf. the "tar pits," Gen. 14:10), and then showered down out of the heavens in flames of fire (cf. Luke 17:29). Lot's wife gazed back intently and was changed into a pillar of salt, a monument to her disobedience. The dense smoke (Gen. 19:28) Abraham saw was caused by the burning sulfur (Gen. 19:24). Though God judged the sinners in the cities of the plain, He also remembered Abraham, that is, God remembered his request (Gen. 18:23-32) and saved Lot from the catastrophe." (The Bible Knowledge Commentary: Genesis 19:23-29)


Leviticus 18:22-24
        You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination. 23 And you shall not lie with any animal and so make yourself unclean with it, neither shall any woman give herself to an animal to lie with it: it is perversion. 24 “Do not make yourselves unclean by any of these things, for by all these the nations I am driving out before you have become unclean.

        Leviticus 18:22 Homosexuality is clearly prohibited throughout the Bible (Lev 20:13; Rm 1:27; 1Co 6:9). The Sodomites were destroyed because of their sodomy (Gn 19:5), and the men of Gibeah were destroyed following their homosexual rampage (Jdg 19:22). Male prostitution was practiced as part of a fertility ritual because pagans deified not just gods but sex as well; ironically, male and female shrine prostitutes were called literally “holy ones” (Dt 23:17). Homosexuality is called detestable because it is against God’s order of creation and against his laws pertaining to the covenant community. The word occurs 116 times in the OT in contexts addressing idolatry, magic, transvestism, and defective sacrifice. (CSB Study Bible)

Leviticus 20:13
        If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.

        Leviticus 20:13 Homosexuality carried the death penalty in ancient Israel and is as strongly denounced in the N.T. as in the O.T. (cf. Rom 1:24-27, especially Rom 1:24; 1 Cor 6:9, 10). (The Believer's Study Bible)

Fertility Cult Prostitutes

Deuteronomy 23:17-18
        “None of the daughters of Israel shall be a cult prostitute, and none of the sons of Israel shall be a cult prostitute. 18 You shall not bring the fee of a prostitute or the wages of a dog into the house of the LORD your God in payment for any vow, for both of these are an abomination to the LORD your God.”

        Deuteronomy 23:17,18 Prostitution was not overlooked in God's law—it was strictly forbidden. To forbid this practice may seem obvious to us, but it may not have been so obvious to the Israelites. Almost every other religion known to them included prostitution as an integral part of its worship services. Prostitution makes a mockery of God's original idea for sex, treating sex as an isolated physical act rather than an act of commitment to another. Outside of marriage, sex destroys relationships. Within marriage, if approached with the right attitude, it can be a relationship builder. God frequently had to warn the people against the practice of extramarital sex. Today we still need to hear his warnings. (Life Application Study Bible)

        Deuteronomy 23:17-18 (See Ge 38:21; Ex 34:15; 1Ki 14:24; Mic 1:7)
Deuteronomy 23:18 male prostitute. Lit. "dog", a word often associated with moral or spiritual impurity (cf. Mt 7:6; Php 3:2; Rev 22:15 and notes; cf. also Mt 15:26). (NIV Study Bible)

1 Kings 14:24
        and there were also male cult prostitutes in the land. They did according to all the abominations of the nations that the LORD drove out before the people of Israel.

        1 Kings 14:24 male shrine prostitutes. Ritual prostitution was an important feature of Canaanite fertility religion. The Israelites had been warned by Moses not to engage in this abominable practice (see Dt 23:17-18;1 Ki 15:12; 2 Ki 23:7; Hos 4:14). (NIV Study Bible)

1 Kings 15:12
        He put away the male cult prostitutes out of the land and removed all the idols that his fathers had made.

2 Kings 23:7
        And he broke down the houses of the male cult prostitutes who were in the house of the LORD, where the women wove hangings for the Asherah.

Hosea 4:14
        I will not punish your daughters when they play the whore, nor your brides when they commit adultery; for the men themselves go aside with prostitutes and sacrifice with cult prostitutes, and a people without understanding shall come to ruin.

1 Kings 15:12
        He put away the male cult prostitutes out of the land and removed all the idols that his fathers had made.

Israel fell like the surrounding nations before them!

Judges 19:16-30
        And behold, an old man was coming from his work in the field at evening. The man was from the hill country of Ephraim, and he was sojourning in Gibeah. The men of the place were Benjaminites. 17 And he lifted up his eyes and saw the traveler in the open square of the city. And the old man said, “Where are you going? And where do you come from?” 18 And he said to him, “We are passing from Bethlehem in Judah to the remote parts of the hill country of Ephraim, from which I come. I went to Bethlehem in Judah, and I am going to the house of the Lord, but no one has taken me into his house. 19 We have straw and feed for our donkeys, with bread and wine for me and your female servant and the young man with your servants. There is no lack of anything.” 20 And the old man said, “Peace be to you; I will care for all your wants. Only, do not spend the night in the square.” 21 So he brought him into his house and gave the donkeys feed. And they washed their feet, and ate and drank.
        22 As they were making their hearts merry, behold, the men of the city, worthless fellows, surrounded the house, beating on the door. And they said to the old man, the master of the house, “Bring out the man who came into your house, that we may know him.” 23 And the man, the master of the house, went out to them and said to them, “No, my brothers, do not act so wickedly; since this man has come into my house, do not do this vile thing. 24 Behold, here are my virgin daughter and his concubine. Let me bring them out now. Violate them and do with them what seems good to you, but against this man do not do this outrageous thing.” 25 But the men would not listen to him. So the man seized his concubine and made her go out to them. And they knew her and abused her all night until the morning. And as the dawn began to break, they let her go. 26 And as morning appeared, the woman came and fell down at the door of the man’s house where her master was, until it was light.
        27 And her master rose up in the morning, and when he opened the doors of the house and went out to go on his way, behold, there was his concubine lying at the door of the house, with her hands on the threshold. 28 He said to her, “Get up, let us be going.” But there was no answer. Then he put her on the donkey, and the man rose up and went away to his home. 29 And when he entered his house, he took a knife, and taking hold of his concubine he divided her, limb by limb, into twelve pieces, and sent her throughout all the territory of Israel. 30 And all who saw it said, “Such a thing has never happened or been seen from the day that the people of Israel came up out of the land of Egypt until this day; consider it, take counsel, and speak.”


        Judges 19:16 old man... sojourning in Gibeah. In a striking irony—and a commentary on the degenerate state of affairs in Israel—the Levite found hospitality, not from the residents of Gibeah, but from an outsider, a sojourner. hill country of Ephraim. Cf. v. 1.
        Judges 19:22-26 The “hospitality” offered by Gibeah was no hospitality at all; it was the “hospitality” of Sodom (cf. Genesis 19), an outrageous affront to the Levite and especially to his concubine. This section closely echoes Gen. 19:4-9; indeed, it is likely that the author intentionally patterned this text after the Genesis account, as if to say, “Things are as bad now as they were in the days of Sodom and Gomorrah!”
Judges 19:22 worthless fellows. Literally, “sons of Belial.” In the OT, the term “Belial” is used descriptively, speaking of perverted or worthless people (cf. Judges 20:13; 1 Sam. 10:27; 1 Kings 21:13). In intertestamental literature, the term was used of Satan, and this is Paul’s sense in 2 Cor. 6:15: “What accord has Christ with Belial?” that we may know him. The word “know” was the normal Hebrew euphemism for sexual relations (cf. Gen. 4:1). The same expression is found in Gen. 19:5, where the men of Sodom wanted to have homosexual relations with Lot’s guests.
        Judges 19:27-30 The Levite’s matter-of-fact reaction to his concubine’s death illustrates his callousness. His gruesome response was to cut her into twelve pieces and send them around to the 12 tribes to rally them against Gibeah. Saul later did the same thing with a yoke of oxen (1 Sam. 11:7); a similar practice is known from Mari, in Mesopotamia. has never happened or been seen. It is unclear what was being referred to here (the outrageous actions of the men of Gibeah or the cutting up of the concubine), but it is more likely the former (cf. Judg. 20:10). (ESV Study Bible)

Judges 19
        Judges 19:1-21:25 What is the significance of this tragic story? When the Israelites' faith in God disintegrated, their unity as a nation also disintegrated. They could have taken complete possession of the land if they had obeyed God and trusted him to keep his promises. But when they forgot him, they lost their purpose, and soon "the people did whatever seemed right in their own eyes" (Judges 21:25). When they stopped letting God lead them, they became no better than the evil people around them. When they made laws for their own benefit, they set standards far below God's. When you leave God out of your life, you may be shocked at what you are capable of doing (Judges 19:30).
        Judges 19:1 Having concubines was an accepted part of Israelite society although this is not what God intended (Genesis 2:24). A concubine had most of the duties but only some of the privileges of a wife. Although she was legally attached to one man, she and her children usually did not have the inheritance rights of the legal wife and legitimate children. Her primary purpose was giving the man sexual pleasure, bearing additional children, and contributing more help to the household or estate. Concubines were often foreign prisoners of war. But they could also be Israelites, as was probably the case in this story.
        Judges 19:24 Nowhere is the unwritten law of hospitality stronger than in the Middle East. Protecting a guest at any cost ranked at the top of a man's code of honor. But here the hospitality code turned to fanaticism. The rape and abuse of a daughter and companion were preferable to the possibility of a conflict between a guest and a neighbor. The two men were selfish (they didn't want to get hurt themselves); they lacked courage (they didn't want to face a conflict even when lives were at stake); and they disobeyed God's law (they allowed deliberate abuse and murder). What drastic consequences can result when social protocol carries more authority than moral convictions!
        Judges 19:29, 30 Although this was a terrible way to spread the news, it effectively communicated the horror of the crime and called the people to action. Saul used a similar method in 1 Samuel 11:7. Ironically, the man who alerted Israel to the murder of his concubine was just as guilty for her death as the men who actually killed her.
        Judges 19:30 The horrible crime described in this chapter wasn't Israel's worst offense. Even worse was the nation's failure to establish a government based upon God's moral principles, where the law of God was the law of the land. As a result, laws were usually not enforced and crime was ignored. Sexual perversion and lawlessness were byproducts of Israel's disobedience to God. The Israelites weren't willing to speak up until events had gone too far.
        Whenever we get away from God and his Word, all sorts of evil can follow. Our drifting away from God may be slow and almost imperceptible, with the ultimate results affecting a future generation. We must continually call our nation back to God and work toward the establishment of God's moral and spiritual reign in the heart of every person. (Life Application Study Bible)

The New Testament declares Homosexuality just as sinful as the Old Testament does: All sex is sinfull apart from a marriage between one (biological) man and one (biological) woman and is forbidden!

Romans 1:18-32
        For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. 19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse. 21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things.
        24 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, 25 because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen.
        26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.
        28 And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done. 29 They were filled with all manner of unrighteousness, evil, covetousness, malice. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, maliciousness. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, haters of God, insolent, haughty, boastful, inventors of evil, disobedient to parents, 31 foolish, faithless, heartless, ruthless. 32 Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.


        Romans 1:24 Three times Paul says God gave them up (Rom. 1:24, 26, 28). In every instance the giving up to sin is a result of idolatry, the refusal to make God the center and circumference of all existence, so that in practice the creature is exalted over the Creator. Hence, all individual sins are a consequence of the failure to prize and praise God as the giver of every good thing.
        Romans 1:25 exchanged the truth about God for a lie. Paul implies that all other religions are based on false ideas about the one true God; they are not just “different paths to one God,” as some claim.
        Romans 1:26-27 Not only homosexual acts but also such passions or desires are said to be dishonorable before God. Just as idolatry is unnatural (contrary to what God intended when he made human beings), so too homosexuality is contrary to nature in that it does not represent what God intended when he made men and women with physical bodies that have a “natural” way of interacting with each other and “natural” desires for each other. Paul follows the OT and Jewish tradition in seeing all homosexual relationships as sinful. The creation account in Genesis 1-2 reveals the divine paradigm for human beings, indicating that God’s will is for man and woman to be joined in marriage. Consumed (or “inflamed”) gives a strong image of a powerful but destructive inward desire. The sin in view is not pederasty (homosexual conduct of men with boys) but men engaging in sin with men. There is no justification here for the view that Paul condemns only abusive homosexual relationships. Due penalty could refer to the sin of homosexuality itself as the penalty for idolatry. Or, the “and” in and receiving may indicate some additional negative consequences received in themselves, that is, some form of spiritual, emotional, or physical blight. The “due” penalty refers to a penalty that is appropriate to the wrong committed.
        Romans 1:28-31 Human sin is not confined to sexual sins, and Paul now lists a whole catalog of the evils common among human beings as a result of turning from God.
        Romans 1:32 People do not generally sin in innocent ignorance, for they know God’s decree (at least in an instinctive way) that their evil deserves condemnation. Indeed, the evil goes further when people give approval and applaud others for their sin, probably because having others join in their sin makes them feel better about the evil course they have chosen. (ESV Study Bible)

1 Corinthians 6:9-11
        Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God. (NASB)

        1 Corinthians 6:9 not inherit the kingdom. The kingdom is the spiritual sphere of salvation where God rules as king over all who belong to Him by faith (see Mt 5:3, 10). All believers are in that spiritual kingdom, yet are waiting to enter into the full inheritance of it in the age to come. People who are characterized by these iniquities are not saved (1 Corinthians 6:10). See 1Jn 3:9, 10. While believers can and do commit these sins, they do not characterize them as an unbroken life pattern. When they do, it demonstrates that the person is not in God's kingdom. True believers who do sin, resent that sin and seek to gain the victory over it (cf. Ro 7:14-25).
        * fornicators. All who indulge in sexual immorality, but particularly unmarried persons.
       *  idolaters. Those who worship any false god or follow any false religious system.
       * adulterers. Married persons who indulge in sexual acts outside their marriage.
       * effeminate... homosexuals. These terms refer to those who exchange and corrupt normal male-female sexual roles and relations. Transvestism, sex changes, and other gender perversions are included (cf. Ge 1:27; Dt 22:5). Those whom some translations refer to as "sodomites," and Paul as "effeminate," are so-called because the sin of male-male sex dominated the city of Sodom (Ge 18:20; 19:4, 5). This sinful perversion is condemned always, in any form, by Scripture (cf. Lev 18:22; 20:13; Ro 1:26, 27; 1Ti 1:10). (The MacArthur Study Bible)

        1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Paul’s use of the word unrighteous (Gk. adikos again; see note on 1 Corinthians 6:7-8) implies that those whose behavior is indistinguishable from the unbelieving world may not be among the “saints” (1 Corinthians 6:1) at all. See also 2 Cor. 13:5. men who practice homosexuality. The Greek words malakos and arsenokoitēs refer specifically to male homosexuals, but in Rom. 1:26-27 Paul also refers to female homosexuals, and to homosexual desires or “passions.” Both passages (as well as Lev 18:22; 20:13; and 1 Tim. 1:10) refer to homosexuality in general.
        1 Corinthians 6:11 washed. This refers to the spiritual cleansing from the guilt and dominating power of sin that occurs at regeneration (see Titus 3:5) and that is symbolized in the “washing” of baptism (Acts 22:16). sanctified. This is a similar concept, in this instance meaning that an initial break with the love of sin, and with the power and practice of sin, occurs at regeneration (see Acts 20:32; Rom. 6:11; 2 Cor. 5:17). However, in another sense “sanctification” is also an ongoing process in the Christian life (Rom. 6:19; Phil. 3:13-14; Heb. 12:1, 14; see also note on 1 Cor. 1:2). justified. The Greek term is dikaioō and is the positive counterpart to the terms “unrighteous,” “suffer wrong,” and “wrong” in 1 Cor. 6:1, 7, 8, 9 (see notes on those verses). Here Paul uses dikaioō not in its ethical sense (“be seen to be righteous”) but in its judicial sense (“declare righteous”). God has already declared the Corinthian Christians to be “righteous” (see Rom. 5:1; 8:1, 33). God was able to do this because the “righteousness” that belongs to Christ, due to his perfect life, has become “our... righteousness” (1 Cor. 1:30; see also 2 Cor. 5:21). Paul’s point in 1 Cor. 6:1-11 is that the Corinthians need to live in a way that is consistent with this verdict and status. (ESV Study Bible)

2 Corinthians 13:5-9
        Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you?—unless indeed you fail to meet the test! 6 I hope you will find out that we have not failed the test. 7 But we pray to God that you may not do wrong—not that we may appear to have met the test, but that you may do what is right, though we may seem to have failed. 8 For we cannot do anything against the truth, but only for the truth. 9 For we are glad when we are weak and you are strong. Your restoration is what we pray for.

        2 Corinthians 13:5 The test to see if Christ is in the Corinthians will be their response to Paul and his call to repent, since God’s message and the messenger are one (2 Corinthians 5:18-6:2).
        2 Corinthians 13:7-9 Paul desires the Corinthians’ restoration even if at this late hour. Paul may seem to have failed again by announcing a plan (this time the threatened return in judgment) that did not come to pass (cf. 2 Cor. 1:12-2:4). This apparent failure, like the judgment itself, would once again establish the truth of the gospel, whose primary purpose is not tearing down but building up the church (2 Cor. 13:10). (ESV Study Bible)

1 Timothy 1:8-11
        Now we know that the law is good, if one uses it lawfully, 9 understanding this, that the law is not laid down for the just but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who strike their fathers and mothers, for murderers, 10 the sexually immoral, men who practice homosexuality, enslavers, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound doctrine, 11 in accordance with the gospel of the glory of the blessed God with which I have been entrusted.

        1 Timothy 1:10 The first term in this verse ("fornicators") applies to sexual immorality in general, and the next phrase condemns homosexuality (cf. Rom 1:24, note). (The Believer's Study Bible)

Hebrews 13:1-5
        Let brotherly love continue. 2 Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares. 3 Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them, and those who are mistreated, since you also are in the body. 4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. 5 Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

        Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor, and chastity in marriage is called for, with the warning that God will judge anyone who is sexually immoral (Gk. pornos, a general term referring to anyone who engages in sexual conduct outside of marriage between a man and a woman) or adulterous (Gk. moichos, referring to anyone who is unfaithful to a spouse). This warning is addressed to members of the church, and if they are genuine Christian believers, this judgment of God would not mean final condemnation to hell (cf. Rom. 8:1) but would bring disciplinary judgment in this life (cf. Heb. 12:5-11) or loss of reward at the last day, or both. However, in light of the earlier warning passages (Heb. 3:12-14; 6:4-8; 10:26-31; 12:14-17), it is possible that such sexual immorality will be an indication that the person committing it is in fact not a true believer and not born again. (ESV Study Bible)

John 8:7-11
        And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8 And once more he bent down and wrote on the ground. 9 But when they heard it, they went away one by one, beginning with the older ones, and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him. 10 Jesus stood up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” 11 She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you; go, and from now on sin no more.”

        John 8:7 He who is without sin. This directly refers to Dt 13:9; 17:7, where the witnesses of a crime are to start the execution. Only those who were not guilty of the same sin could participate.
        John 8:8 Cf. v. 6. This seems to have been a delaying device, giving them time to think.
        John 8:11 sin no more. Actually, "Leave your life of sin" (cf. John 3:17; 12:47; Mt 9:1-8; Mk 2:13-17). (The MacArthur Study Bible)

Galatians 5:14
        For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

Jude 1:5-8
        Now I want to remind you, although you once fully knew it, that Jesus, who saved a people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed those who did not believe. 6 And the angels who did not stay within their own position of authority, but left their proper dwelling, he has kept in eternal chains under gloomy darkness until the judgment of the great day— 7 just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which likewise indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural desire, serve as an example by undergoing a punishment of eternal fire. 8 Yet in like manner these people also, relying on their dreams, defile the flesh, reject authority, and blaspheme the glorious ones.

        Jude 1:5-7 Judgment Reserved for the False Teachers. Jude applies examples of judgment from the whole of biblical history in his polemic against the heretics.
Jude 1:5 The Analogy of Egypt. Jude reminds his readers that they once fully knew about God’s judgment, but apparently their sense of its certainty has waned. He refers them to the Exodus account as a reminder. Jesus... saved a people out of the land of Egypt (cf. Exodus 1-15). This may seem puzzling, because the name “Jesus” is not applied to the Son of God in the OT. It is a prime example of the apostolic understanding of the OT, according to which the Son of God, in his eternal divine nature, was active in the world from the beginning of creation, long before his incarnation (cf. Luke 24:27; John 1:3; 8:56-58; 12:41; 1 Cor. 10:4, 9; Col. 1:16; Heb. 1:8-12; 11:26). Jesus, then, judged and destroyed those in Israel who escaped from Egypt but failed to keep trusting in God, and therefore they did not reach the Promised Land (cf. 1 Cor. 10:5; Heb. 3:16-19). Instead of the name “Jesus,” some Greek manuscripts have ho Kyrios, “the Lord,” and some English translations follow that reading. Most of the oldest and most reliable manuscripts have Iēsous (“Jesus”).
        Jude 1:6 The Analogy of the Rebellious Angels. The heart of Jude’s next comparison is the angels who did not stay within their own position of authority but apparently rebelled against God’s authority and sought to be equal to him. God has kept these beings in eternal chains ever since. Some scholars think this refers to the original fall of angels from heaven. Others think Jude is referring to the sin of angels in Gen. 6:1-4 (see note on 1 Pet. 3:19). This view is strengthened by Jude’s citation of 1 Enoch 1.9 (Jude 1:14-15), which contains much discussion on the fall of these angels.
        Jude 1:7 The Analogy of Sodom and Gomorrah. As with the unfaithful Israelites and the rebellious angels (Jude 1:5-6), so also the people of Sodom and Gomorrah (Genesis 19) received the judgment of eternal fire. Smoke was still rising from the site of Sodom and Gomorrah in the first century a.d. (see Philo, On Abraham 141; Philo, Life of Moses 2.56; Wisdom of Solomon 10:7), and this was taken as a physical symbol of eternal divine judgment. Pursued unnatural desire refers to the homosexual activity of Sodom (Gen. 19:5; cf. Josephus, Jewish Antiquities 1.200-201; Philo, On Abraham 134-136; Testament of Naphtali 3.4). The Greek is literally “went after other flesh,” meaning “other” or “different” than the sexual immorality with women that Jude had just mentioned (cf. Rom. 1:26-27). The judgment of Sodom and Gomorrah in history functions as a “type” (a foreshadowing planned by God, cf. Rom. 5:14) of eternal judgment to come. (ESV Study Bible)

Mark 10:6-9
        But from the beginning of creation, ‘God made them male and female.’ 7 ‘Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh. 9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

        Mark 10:6-9 Women were often treated as property. Marriage and divorce were regarded as transactions similar to buying and selling land. But Jesus condemned this attitude, clarifying God's original intention—that marriage bring oneness [between a man and a woman only] (Genesis 2:24). Jesus held up God's ideal for marriage and told his followers to live by that ideal. (Life Application Study Bible)

1 Corinthians 7:1-2
        Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

        1 Corinthians 7:1 touch a woman. This is a Jewish euphemism for sexual intercourse (see, e.g., Ge 20:6; Ru 2:9; Pr 6:29). Paul is saying that it is good not to have sex, that is, to be single and celibate. It is not, however, the only good or even better than marriage (cf. Ge 1:28; 2:18).
        1 Corinthians 7:2 immoralities. There is a great danger of sexual sin when single (cf. Mt 19:12). Marriage is God's only provision for sexual fulfillment. Marriage should not be reduced simply to that, however. Paul has a much higher view and articulates it in Eph 5:22, 23. He is, here, stressing the issue of sexual sin for people who are single. (The MacArthur Study Bible)

God’s desire for us is to live free from unbridled sinful desires. Being under grace is not license to sin. Continual sinful living is a sign of an unregenerate person.

Romans 6:15-16
        What then? Are we to sin because we are not under law but under grace? By no means! 16 Do you not know that if you present yourselves to anyone as obedient slaves, you are slaves of the one whom you obey, either of sin, which leads to death, or of obedience, which leads to righteousness?

        Romans 6:15 Paul emphatically rejects the idea that freedom from the old covenant era of being under law implies freedom to sin.
        Romans 6:16 Moral decisions still matter for Christians. Giving in to sin results in people increasingly becoming obedient slaves to sin. (For a brief description of ancient slavery, see note on 1 Cor. 7:21.) This kind of activity eventually leads to death, not implying that genuine believers can actually lose their salvation but that sinning leads them in that direction, away from full enjoyment of life with Christ (cf. note on Gal. 5:4). Those who give themselves utterly to sin will die (face eternal punishment). (ESV Study Bible)

Romans 13:8-10
        Owe no one anything, except to love each other, for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. 9 For the commandments, “You shall not commit adultery, You shall not murder, You shall not steal, You shall not covet,” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 10 Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.

        Romans 13:10 love is the fulfillment of the law. If we treat others with the same care that we have for ourselves, we will not violate any of God's laws regarding interpersonal relationships (Mt 7:12; Jas 2:8). (The MacArthur Study Bible)

1 Corinthians 6:12-20
        “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be dominated by anything. 13 “Food is meant for the stomach and the stomach for food”—and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14 And God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power. 15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never! 16 Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” 17 But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. 18 Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, 20 for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.

        1 Corinthians 6:12-20 As one who is washed, sanctified, and justified eternally by God's grace, the believer is set free (cf. Ro 8:21, 33; Gal 5:1, 13). The Corinthians had done with that freedom just what Paul had warned the Galatians not to do: "Do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh" (Gal 5:13). So in this section, Paul exposed the error in the Corinthian Christians' rationalization that they were free to sin, because it was covered by God's grace.
        1 Corinthians 6:12 All things are lawful... but not... profitable. That may have been a Corinthian slogan. It was true that no matter what sins a believer commits, God forgives (Eph 1:7), but not everything they did was profitable or beneficial. The price of abusing freedom and grace was very high. Sin always produces loss.
not be mastered. Cf. Ro 6:14. Sin has power, and no sin is more enslaving than sexual sin. While it can never be the unbroken pattern of a true believer's life, it can be the recurring habit that saps joy, peace, usefulness and brings divine chastening and even church discipline (cf. 1 Corinthians 5:1ff.). See 1Th 4:3-5. Sexual sin controls, so the believer must never allow sin to have that control, but must master it in the Lord's strength (see 1 Corinthians 9:27). Paul categorically rejects the ungodly notion that freedom in Christ gives license to sin (cf. Ro 7:6; 8:13, 21).
        1 Corinthians 6:13 Food... stomach. Perhaps this was a popular proverb to celebrate the idea that sex is purely biological, like eating. The influence of philosophical dualism may have contributed to this idea since it made only the body evil; therefore, what one did physically was not preventable and thus inconsequential. Because the relationship between these two is purely biological and temporal, the Corinthians, like many of their pagan friends, probably used that analogy to justify sexual immorality.
        the body... the Lord. Paul rejects the convenient justifying analogy. Bodies and food are temporal relations that will perish.
        1 Corinthians 6:14 Cf. Ac 2:32; Eph 1:19. Bodies of believers and the Lord have an eternal relationship that will never perish. He is referring to the believer's body to be changed, raised, glorified, and made heavenly. See 1 Corinthians 15:35-54; cf. Php 3:20, 21.
1 Corinthians 6:15 members. The believer's body is not only for the Lord here and now (v. 14) but is of the Lord, a part of His body, the church (Eph 1:22, 23). The Christian's body is a spiritual temple in which the Spirit of Christ lives (1 Corinthians 12:3; Jn 7:38, 39; 20:22; Ac 1:8; Ro 8:9; 2Co 6:16); therefore, when a believer commits a sexual sin, it involves Christ with a harlot. All sexual sin is harlotry.
        May it never be! These words translate the strongest Gr. negative—"this should never be so."
        1 Corinthians 6:16 one flesh. Paul supports his point in the previous verse by appealing to the truth of Ge 2:24 that defines the sexual union between a man and a woman as "one flesh." When a person is joined to a harlot, it is a one flesh experience; therefore Christ spiritually is joined to that harlot.
        1 Corinthians 6:17 one spirit with Him. Further strengthening the point, Paul affirms that all sex outside of marriage is sin; but illicit relationships by believers are especially reprehensible because they profane Jesus Christ with whom believers are one (Jn 14:18-23; 15:4; 17:20-23; Ro 12:5). This argument should make such sin unthinkable.
        1 Corinthians 6:18 Every other sin... is outside. There is a sense in which sexual sin destroys a person like no other, because it is so intimate and entangling, corrupting on the deepest human level. But Paul is probably alluding to venereal disease, prevalent and devastating in his day and today. No sin has greater potential to destroy the body, something a believer should avoid because of the reality given in vv. 19, 20.
        1 Corinthians 6:19 not your own. A Christian's body belongs to the Lord (v. 13), is a member of Christ (v. 15), and is the Holy Spirit's temple. See Ro 12:1, 2. Every act of fornication, adultery, or any other sin is committed by the believer in the sanctuary, the Holy of Holies, where God dwells. In the OT, the High-Priest only went in there once a year, and only after extensive cleansing, lest he be killed (Lv 16).
        1 Corinthians 6:20 a price. The precious blood of Christ (see 1Pe 1:18).
glorify God. The Christian's supreme purpose (1 Cor 10:31). (The MacArthur Study Bible)

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Leaving Homosexuality

Jeff Johnston of Focus on the Family wrote,

       
"Many people with same-sex attractions choose not to identify as homosexual, lesbian, gay or bisexual. Instead, their primary identification comes from their faith in Jesus Christ. They identify as Christians, followers of Jesus and God’s children. And they choose to live according to biblical truths and values, reserving sexual expression for marriage between a man and a woman. We understand that this may be a difficult struggle, requiring help and assistance from other Christians."

Helpful Websites:

Keys to Recovery from Same-Sex Attractions | Bible.org
https://bible.org/article/keys-recovery-same-sex-attractions

Leaving Gay Lifestyle: Support & Resources to Restore, Heal (flfamily.org)
https://www.flfamily.org/get-help/leaving-gay-lifestyle

Struggling With Same-Sex Attractions - Focus on the Family
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-qa/struggling-with-same-sex-attractions/

Support and Resources for leaving Homosexuality - Living Hope (livehope.org)
https://www.livehope.org/

Ex-gay, transformational Ministries aimed at gays and lesbians (religioustolerance.org)
http://www.religioustolerance.org/hom_evan.htm

LGBT Recovery Centers - Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender Addiction Treatment
https://www.recovery.org/drug-treatment/lgbt/

Finding a Group (nacr.org)
https://www.nacr.org/referral-center/finding-a-group

Celebrate Recovery Homepage
https://www.celebraterecovery.com/

Homosexuality: The Biblical-Christian View | Bible.org
https://bible.org/article/homosexuality-biblical-christian-view

Pro-Gay Theology: Does the Bible Approve of Homosexuality? | Answers in Genesis
https://answersingenesis.org/family/homosexuality/pro-gay-theology-does-the-bible-approve-of-homosexuality/

Probe Ministries – Answers From A Christian Worldview
https://probe.org/

Grace and Truth About LGBT – Probe Ministries
https://probe.org/grace-and-truth-about-lgbt/

(Related Bible Verses: Gen. 19:1-11; Gen. 19:23-26; Lev. 18:22-24; Lev. 20:13; Deut. 23:17-18; 1 Kings 14:24; 1 Kings 15:12; 2 Kings 23:7; Hosea 4:14; 1 Kings 15:12; Judges 19:16-30; Rom. 1:18-32; 1 Cor. 6:9-11; 2 Cor. 13:5-9; 1 Tim. 1:8-11; Heb. 13:1-5; John 8:7-11; Gal. 5:14; Jude 1:5-8; Mark 10:6-9; 1 Cor. 7:1-2; Rom. 6:15-16; Rom. 13:8-10; 1 Cor. 6:12-20)
 

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